It’s the nature of the United Arab Emirates to drive everywhere. If you have the means, you drive a car because it beats standing at a bus station in 110 degree heat (although some of the bus stops are covered and air conditioned). In this respect, Dubai reminds me a lot of another place where I spent a lot of time driving: Detroit. Everywhere in Detroit takes 20-40 minutes to get to. Ditto in Dubai. Both cities are spread out over a vast amount of space, a lot of it empty. Whereas Dubai’s empty spaces are undeveloped, Detroit’s are abandoned. I sometimes think of Detroit as a city with its heart ripped out, and Dubai as a city powered by a cheap, plastic, artificial heart that is already starting to break down.
Growing up in the suburbs of Detroit meant that a car was something you aspired to as soon as possible. It allowed you to get away with your friends to places you would have never asked your parents to take you. It made a handy mobile bedroom for make out sessions, and if nothing else was a sanctuary from the hassles of everyday suburban living (because in the early 90′s there were no car phones for middle class people). I see some of this among the Arabs here in Dubai. Like teenagers everywhere, there is a lot of pent up emotion, sexual frustration, and anxiety for the future. In the US, kids get out of high school, move out of the house and hopefully go to college and then proceed to release all these pent up cravings in all manner of crazy behavior, most of it involving alcohol, sex, and possibly illicit drug use. To a lesser extent of course you have the tattoos, the piercings, political causes, cults, and hardcore religion.
Although Dubai is the Gulf’s “Sin City” this does not really parallel our Western concepts of the kind of craziness going on in Las Vegas, or New Orleans. To a gulf Arab it might be a really big deal to drink beer, dance at a nightclub, and oogle the women in the slinky outfits. One of my pet theories is that the UAE is following the American blueprint of development (trying as best it can, anyway) and is now finding itself somewhere in the 1950′s. The country is flush, people can buy all sorts of stuff that wasn’t previously available, but the pushback to this sort of hollow materialism hasn’t quite started to occur. Societal mores are weakening, but are still fairly strong. People still don’t do the sorts of things in public that might be common in the US. Think about your grandparents. They probably went to church every sunday. People looked out for each other and their kids. There was a public civility that existed because everyone was worried about what their neighbors thought . Deviance was kept quiet, out of sight, and hidden forever, if possible. People also chafed under the conformity, setting the table for everything that occurred in the sixties.
In the UAE life is still kind of like this too, although it is not a perfect match. People are fairly pious, but the government also keeps a very rigid control over morality. Although they want to be the Gulf’s playground, they are trying to have it both ways by keeping things under some sort of control. This is why for example you can be arrested for kissing in public, being dressed indecently, swearing or gesticulating in a lewd manner at someone, to say nothing of being a homosexual or having sex outside of marriage, or adultery. There were and are laws against these sorts of things in the US too, but I think a lot of barriers started falling in the 60′s and the UAE isn’t there yet, if it ever will be.
In the 50′s, with the middle class being able to afford cars, cruising became a pastime for a lot of Americans, adults and teenagers. You could hop in your car and drive to some town where nobody knew you or your family and be a little more free. Maybe you could kiss your girl without some town busybody telling your parents. I see a lot of cruising here. If you live in a culture where you can’t date and its too hot to be outside for months at a stretch, how do you entertain yourself and blow off steam? The answer, in my own limited experience is to drive, and particularly drive as fast as possible over everything. You can drive fast on the highway, you can drive through the desert over sand dunes. You can drive on the beach. You can drive on the shoulders of the road, and you can drive in the opposite direction on a one way street. I think it is one of the few ways for people here to vent.
Now add this to the fact that we have dozens of different nationalities also sharing the road and we get all kinds of wild, dangerous, funny, and weird stuff happening all the time and since you have to drive to get anywhere there really is no avoiding it. There are incongruities such as junky third world trucks that can barely drive 45mph sharing the highway with high performance sports cars such as Ferraris or Maseratis that blow by you at 120mph. There are laws, there are rules and courtesies but everything seems to be optional if you can get away with it. It amazes me for example that it is perfectly all right for someone to tailgate and flash your lights, but that same macho driver will turn you in if you give them the finger. Apparently that is a line you can’t cross. If they don’t turn you in they may try to run you off the road. I do not have first hand experience, but I see maybe one excessive pissing contest a week with motorists. I see aggressive and risky driving every day to the point that I don’t even recognize it anymore. What specifically you ask? Oh, just to name a few:
1) Two cars sharing a lane so that a faster car can pass by (very common on exit ramps- again this is because you have a lot of giant construction vehicles that go very slow so sometimes they get over so you can go by)
2) People whipping across three or four lanes of traffic to get onto another street. (No incremental lane changes, no signal, although this is probably obvious to point out)
3) People stopping and going into reverse because they missed their exit- yes on what would be considered an interstate in the US. The smart ones do it on the shoulder, but I’ve seen plenty of examples that do not meet that standard. Now, this is what I would plainly consider suicide, but there might be some weak justifications here after all with all the construction sometimes there really is only one way to get somewhere and it can change overnight. I have been here four months and the landscape has already changed. Traffic lights appear where previously there were none. Exit ramps appear and disappear. Signs appear, are covered, uncovered, and then changed again. It requires a lot of flexibility. I’m happy to miss the turn and and come around, but sometimes that next turnaround is along way away and if you are impatient maybe going in reverse seems like a viable option for you.
As is typical for me, a simple blog post about driving here became another long winded discourse on history and politics. My apologies. I will have a “Driving 2″ post soon and it will focus on driving and ethnic stereotypes. Isn’t that an improvement? Toodles!